--- oui ou non

the tug of war between definitives
questions
invites online
rsvps
we want answers now
yes
or
no

or maybe
now this word has been good to me
the get out card of commitment
a nice bold question mark

?

I've over used it
it was my knee jerk reply
until recently ....
in realisation that good opportunities can be seized
when they come your way

the value of feeling able to assert your boundaries
forgiving yourself when you don't have an answer
saying yes more often
and giving yourself time to think
if the answer is fuzzy

and remembering my mantra
'you are allowed to change your mind'!